As you move through the process of untangling your relationship and sorting out all things financial and child-related, give some thought to the long-term cost or benefit of your communication style. It can be easy to send a quick retort or a negative … [Read more...] about Communication and divorce.
Divorce Is Not A Scary Word
Today, I wanted to write to you about how you might feel during these early days of separation. There are many things in life we can’t control. And during the process of untangling your family through separation you may feel like there are many, many … [Read more...] about Things you can control through separation (and … life).
Maybe you’re feeling overwhelmed, uncertain and a little out of whack with all that’s going on right now.Should you keep calm and carry on?Or should you buy ALL the chocolate?I don’t have all the answers, I’m not sure anyone does.However, I want you to … [Read more...] about When they go low, go high through your separation.
Dear Friends, I have been doing this work for long enough now that I have seen and heard many things – some of the stories I hear make me cry because I can hear and imagine the pain that a family is experiencing and working through. Many times, I am … [Read more...] about Aggression has no place in law.
No doubt, as with most families, over the past few months, you may have used some or all of your annual and personal leave to take care of your family. And for the next few months, at least, you want to save what leave you have to take care of your … [Read more...] about Weekend appointments available.
Are you preparing to negotiate with your spouse? If so, keep in mind that "negotiating" is simply a conversation with the purpose of trying to reach an agreement with your spouse that works for both of you. Negotiating is not about who is right and … [Read more...] about Choose happiness over being right.
There is nothing easy about making or processing the decision to separate, however in making or processing the decision, you have a choice about what you do next, what steps you take, how you react, how you respond. Over the many years that I have been … [Read more...] about Smart women make smart choices during separation.
I know you want to have an amicable separation, and maintain a positive relationship moving forward - not only for your own sense of well-being, but also for your children's benefit. Let's be honest, you won't always want to cooperate with your spouse … [Read more...] about 3 reasons to cooperate with your spouse during and after separation.